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the damsel

I’m Cla, a random girl who happens to love blogging. I’ve been doing this for more than three years now since I was in my senior year in high school. Writing is not my forté nor is it my hobby but rather it is just one of my ways of letting out my thoughts and opinions as well as my way of relieving stress and pressure.

I’m an internet enthusiast, a music lover, and just recently I got interested in K-pop particularly with  the group called DBSK, thanks to my friend who introduced it to me. I’m currently in DBSK fangirl mode and the only thing that keeps me sane at present is the fact that I have friends whom I can talk to about my craziness and obsession of these 5 gorgeous guys. My favorite member is Kim JaeJoong a.k.a Hero (Youngwoong in Korean) simply because he gave the word “hotness” a new definition. And having said this, I might post a lot of DBSK or K-pop related things here until I’m over with my fangirl stage. So please bear with me.

And oh, just a simple warning. I talk/write too much of my opinions and thoughts so expect some lengthy entries from me. I love commenting even on the smallest things so be patient with me and my (sometimes) senseless comments. :D

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1. diana - August 9, 2008

hi there i saw ur msg on my blog
u r trying to get the concert tix to thai smtown concert?

cos where im booking my tixs from http://www.invisionplus.net/forums/index.php?mforum=tvxqmiracleo
only accept group booking min pax not known yet
but can check out their forum…..

2. lovetohateme - August 9, 2008

^^ thanks!

3. Dorien - September 4, 2008

Hello!! OMG! I love this site! I recently found out about it, I love it!! I wish I would have know about this earlier! I’m from Belgium, and DBSK is not really known here, so I have to find out everything through internet! This blog is awesome!! Thank you so much for sharing these information with other DBSK-fangirls who don’t have any other chose than to look things up on youtube and stuff!! Keep up the good work!!! I sure read your blog everyday!!!
Big Belgium Hugs! -xxx-

4. lovetohateme - September 8, 2008

@ Dorien: Thank you so much for reading my blog and you’re welcome. It’s my pleasure to share info about DBSK. I’m glad I’m helping you by providing you with some info. Rest assured that I’ll update you guys with news about DBSK as often as I can. Again, thanks! =)

5. Anonymous - September 20, 2008

omg i love dbsk so much’

6. JuNe - September 22, 2008

OH MY GOSH! OH MY GOSH! OH MY GOSH! Only just by seeing part of these HOTTIES Mirotic MV had made my nose bleed much!!! Wait ’till the full MV officially comes out, and the second thing i’ll noticed is that i’m facing the ceiling of the hospital… For almost 2 years they dissappeared… Then suddenly they came back and *BANG* !!! 5 HOTTIES showed up and cast spell on all over the girls on this planet!!! Now, i’ve fallen for them!!! I’m under their spell….o_0

7. lovetohateme - September 22, 2008

^^ The full MV is officially out. It came out just a few minutes ago. I’ve posted it here so just go and check it out. Just type Mirotic MV Full version on the search box above if you can’t find it. =)

8. jana - October 9, 2008

i really like your site! i can so relate to your “fangirl” mode since i was also recently introduced by my friend to the world of dong bang shin ki! *sigh* they really are so amazing! ;-) hontoni kawaii!
by the way, extra thanks for the lyrics of afterglow! it is such a beautiful song…their voices here are heaven-sent! wooooot! hehehe.
keep up the great work! ;-)

9. lovetohateme - October 9, 2008

^^ you’re welcome. :D thanks for visiting, too.

10. chocho - October 14, 2008

I’m in my late 20’s and rediscovered DBSK very recently. I knew who they were but I wasn’t really interested in them because they were still like little boys back in 2004. When they came back from Japan with the new Korean album, Mirotic, OMG….they blew my mind away. They were HOT and their performance was incredibly great. I never knew Xiah Junsu was that HOT and sang beautifully. I just fell in love with them. I’ve become their loyal fan already.

11. fara - October 28, 2008

helo there ….
i’m sooooooooooo lovin’ ur blog!!
we have somethin’ in common here
1. i also discovered dbsk through a friend
2. n i have a huge,major crush on jaejoong!!

keep on posting fabulous entries
especially on those bout our hero =p
i discovered ur blog n omg!!
its lyke heaven!

got to know these hot guys so recently
post their comeback to korea tru mirotic
wish i knew bout them earlier *sigh*

nway nice knowing ya
keep up the good work

12. lovetohateme - October 28, 2008

@ fara: thanks for being here, too! i’m happy you enjoy reading my posts and glad to know more fellow jaejoong fans here. :D

13. anonymous2 - November 11, 2008

hi there, I love how you’re biased towards jaejoong but you never ever put down others for the sake of glorifying him. And you’re not overly crazed like, “i wanna marry jj and have his children” or something like that haha.

Ah I really really love jaejoong too! Have never seen anyone like him who captures my heart so, even though I can’t understand a word of korean or japanese. His mellifluous voice, eyes, multi-faceted personality…He is just really special. Frankly all the artistes I’ve liked before him seem so bland in comparison. I can totally imagine myself growing along with him, watching him stay on or fade away from the entertainment circle, marry, have kids, age..And I think I’ll always support him.:D

14. lovetohateme - November 11, 2008

^^ hahaha. i don’t put down others simply because i don’t need to. i’ve always believed that supporting and loving an artist doesn’t include badmouthing others. =)

15. Anonymous - November 12, 2008

Hi! I saw you found our blog, thanks for coming over ^_^
I`m a Jaejoong fangirl too =D but I obviously like all of them…I mean, how can you not like all of them? They`re so adorable and funny <3
Nice to meet you =]

16. lovetohateme - November 16, 2008

^^ hello there! you’re from sujucupcakes, right? i just checked the link when you commented the other time. nice blog you have there! :D

17. AprilSunshine. - November 20, 2008

OMG I LOVE JAEJOONG : )

18. ezra - November 26, 2008

OMO, I’m a DBSK fangirl, particularly a JUNSU fangirl. <33 My fave couple is YooSu couple, but JUNSU and Yunho tops my list. :) )

THANKS FOR THE NEWS IN YOUR BLOG~

19. suki - December 3, 2008

hey, im from jamaica and well i swer its just me and my lil sis ho know and love dbsk. so thanks alot for your blogs all about dbsk, it reallllllly helps. pls kep up the good work!!!!!!!!!!!!! dbsk hwaiting!!!!!!!!!

20. Elia - December 5, 2008

hi..
i live in thailand my youtube account is http://www.youtube/chestnutbronco
umm the thai dbsk tickets are at thaiticketmajor.com
you can change it to english on the topm left of the screen..
its postponed to feb though!!
im going!!
my friend got VIP SEATS WOOHOO!!

21. jaesarang - December 18, 2008

HELLO! i really REALLY want to thank you SO SO SO much for posting up all these! :D this site is AWESOME.
i have a question though!
do you happen to know where can i purchase the 2009 calander online from? cause i live in singapore. and there’s seriously nothing here in singapore that has to do with dbsk. I’M DESPERATE.
please tell me! D:

22. lovetohateme - December 21, 2008

^^ you’re welcome and you can go to http://www.yesasia.com to buy the calendar. i know they’re selling it there. hope that helps! :D

23. Jennifer(: - January 18, 2009

Hi there ! I recently came upon your blog a few weeks ago & I’ve been checking in for news about DBSK ever since. I’m from the US , & there’s really not much stuff on Kpop here, so your blog is a big lifesaver! I’m currently in the “fangirl mode” too. Just yesterday I made collage of Hero w/ one of my friends :D So yeah , I just wanted to say hi, & to let you know that I have been tuning into your blog. Especially since I saw your post about not wanting to have silent readers. Well then , keep up the good work ! (:

24. lovetohateme - January 18, 2009

@ Jennifer: Thanks for visiting and taking time to read my blog. :D Just leave your comments if you feel like it and join our little discussions. Hahaha. It’s fun having conversations and sharing opinions and thoughts with fellow fans. :D

25. Jennifer(: - January 19, 2009

Haha , yeah , I agree, chatting is A LOT of fun (: But I’ve never really posted comments on people’s blogs or anything . I mostly chat w/ friends on Myspace or AIM. Blogging’s pretty new to me ! :D

26. Anonymous - January 21, 2009

OMG i luv dbsk too <3
i knew them since i was little cuz im KOREAN :D
well i dont live in korea anymore but i agree with u
HERO is the hottest guy who EVER lived <3
going to a concert sumday…^^
so if u need any help with translating i can help u?
unless u hav friends to do that lol.

27. lovetohateme - February 1, 2009

@ Anonymous: Hi there! Sorry if I only replied to your comment now. Somehow I missed it because I had to reply to a lot comments at the same time. But anyway, thanks for being visiting! :D Oh, so you’re Korean? Cool. =) I’d love it if you could help in translating some stuff since I really don’t have friends who could help me in translating. Actually, I often check DNBN for some updates but since I don’t understand Korean, I only end up checking for pictures and not for news. I only get the translated Korean news from other sites or forums. Hahaha.

28. Mizuna - February 2, 2009

i noe y it doesnt come up now!
i typed in wrong spot :3
o and i commented bak on ur bloggy.

29. lovetohateme - February 2, 2009

Hahaha. I actually thought there’s something wrong with my blog since your name isn’t appearing. LOL. Thanks for coming back to leave a comment! :D

30. mizuna - February 3, 2009

LoL its nice to talk to a fellow fangirl XD do u have msn?

31. mizuna - February 3, 2009

ehh ur talking so much and im talking so little. my apologies. that never happens lol :D i talk more when im chatting hehe.

32. lovetohateme - February 3, 2009

Huh? I didn’t quite get your last comment. Hahaha, I’m so slow today. LOL. Unfortunately, I don’t have msn. I used Yahoo Messenger since it’s what most people here in the Philippines use. :D But I think I should consider using msn too since a couple of readers here are asking if I have msn. Hahaha.

33. suki - March 9, 2009

hey, being a fellow fangirl n all, dont u kinda miss dbsk wen they go to japan because they appear less on tv shows n stuff, cause weirdly i do…….

34. lovetohateme - March 10, 2009

@ suki: Well, they’re actually appearing in a lot of shows in Japan but the problem is, most of them are music shows so all they do is a little talk and they proceed in performing their songs. Unlike in Korea, they appear in variety shows where they play games, make lengthy interviews, and show their dorky selves. I guess that’s what I miss most because I’m enjoying their Korean TV show guesting compared to the Japanese ones.

35. Dorien - March 19, 2009

Hellow there!!
I’m very sorry for people doing stuff like this to you!! But, I don’t think you should stop doing what you love most in this world!! They should pay for what they did to you, you shouldn’t punish yourself! Your not only an amazing writer, you seem to be a very smart girl as well! Your comments are funny and make a lot af sense (it’s not just some random opinion). You think before you write, and you do it in such a way that it is very easy and fun for us readers to read it!
You should continue doing this!! I can’t say I know how you feel, because I was not the one being wronged, but you’re doing an amazing job here, and I bet you have a lot of fans, who keep up with your site every single day!
Continue to make us proud being fans of DBSK!
I’m positive that if DBSK knew they had fans like you, sharing info and admiring them, they would be very thankful!!
Just like I am very thankful!! :) Cheer up! Keep the Dong Bang love high and alive!! -xxx- Dorien

36. lovetohateme - March 21, 2009

@ Dorien: Awww.. thanks for your kind and comforting words! I’m really touched. I’m glad to have readers like you who keeps on encouraging me at times like this when I’m feeling down. After reading your comment as well as the ones left by the others, I started to feel better. Thank you! Don’t worry, I won’t stop updating this blog. But I just need to take a short break because my work is seriously demanding so much from me right now. But I promise I will be back soon and hopefully you and the other readers would still be reading my blog by that time. :D

37. Dorien - March 25, 2009

AAHHH WELCOME BACK!!!! :) So happy right now!!!! *throws you a virtual -welcome back- party*
UHUM…. *starts speech* We are all gathered here to welcome back the great writer of this blog! Let us all get drunk with Dong Bang love and keep on praying that we can continue our support for these 5 amazing MEN till at least the year ‘9095′ (get it?… OF COURSE you get it!! LOL) and please let the writer of this blog be “haengbok yeongwonhi” with Jaejoong Sshi (Can I have Junsu Oppa? *begs*!). Let us all continue the love and respect each others hard work!! *drinks soju AKA watches DBSK videos*
[ps: I sincerely apologize for the silliness of the message... but when I'm happy... I'm HAPPY :) !!!!!]

38. lovetohateme - March 26, 2009

@ Dorien: Cheers! :D Hahaha. Thank you for that welcome back party and for that very nice speech. I love it! :D

39. nessa - April 20, 2009

hey im nessa a.k.a echonkz from http://sweetfig.blogspot.com/
we’re looking for new author..and i don’t know why i like u here in wordpress hehehe..but i was very busy so i rarely come to wordpress..
would u join us in sweetfig team???u’re from phil rite?we have phil author too,,she’s raissa,,
so how bout it??
it’s ok if don’t want to^^

can u answer it to email?
it’s echonkzbangedlooh@yahoo.com

thx before^^

40. gun sae - June 11, 2009

omg, i like dbsk too and my favorite member is hero too and i think he gave hotness a new definition as well. But it is nothing special since there are countless others who think the same thing.

41. donalduck luv mickyoochun - July 12, 2009

hye!!!!anyone knows about Jae’s Heaven’s Postman????

~~~anyway~~~~~

YOOCHUN OPPA!!!!SARANGHAEYO!!!!

42. lovetohateme - July 13, 2009

@ donalduck luv mickyoochun: LOL @ your username .:D About Heaven’s Postman, I think it will be aired around August or September. I’m not sure.

43. katherine - July 13, 2009

I LOVE YOUR BLOGS!!! KEEP IT UP!! lol~~
Dong Bang Shin Ki Hwaiting!!

44. lovetohateme - July 15, 2009

@ katherine: Thanks! :)

45. VANESSA! - July 16, 2009

heey, your blog is really updated (:
i am also in fangirling mode currently :D
AND MY FAVOURITE IS ALSO JAEJOONG!
HE RADIATES HOTNESS MANSZX (:
hahahs,
update more,
and DON GO OUT OF FANGIRLING MODE (((:

46. lovetohateme - July 19, 2009

@ VANNESSA!: Hahaha. Thanks for dropping by my blog. :)

47. NyNy - August 15, 2009

Hey, it’s NyNy!
Want to share links? I like your blog and Yoochun is a SEXY mofo.
The new pictures of aadbsk3 look great.

48. lovetohateme - August 17, 2009

@ NyNy: Sure. I’ll add you up to my blogroll once I’m one replying to the comments. :D

49. minhngoc - August 21, 2009

It’s thoughtfull of U lovetohate me, I’m sure.

50. natasa - August 31, 2009

hey, your site is awsome, keep it up……I have to say you are the best source of new information about DBSK,lol….I already put it in my favorites:))

51. lovetohateme - August 31, 2009

@ natasa: Thanks! :D

52. Schan - November 12, 2009

Hi! I just found this site tonight! I have bookmarked it so I will definitely be visiting as often as possible!!
Thank you for supporting DBSK in such a big way!! I am sure that the boys would greatly appreciate it!! >.<
I too love Jae..but Changmin maybe just slightly more!! (Although Jae's voice is the only thing that can calm me when I am upset hehe).

^-^ Arigatou!!

53. lovetohateme - November 15, 2009

@ Schan: Hello and welcome! Hahaha. I’m glad you found this blog interesting. Thank you for coming here to read. Hope you enjoy and just feel free to leave comments if you have anything to say. I love it when readers are active. :D

54. Schan - November 23, 2009

Thank you!! You are so amazingly dedicated to the boys it’s wonderful!! Whenever I have time to read an update, I know where to come to find the latest information and pictures >.< etc!!

^_^ It's so nice of you to pour your passion into this!!